A safe place to celebrate, discover, and create bi culture. Hugs and tea all around.
So, I am stealing Kara’s idea and uploading the photo she so graciously took of me at Grand Rapids, Michigan’s first Parade of Pride! She had this awesome big bi flag, and it ended up being the only really visible bi pride. She has an awesome photo on her Tumblr as well!
Hey look, it’s me!
Anywho, a friendly reminder that you are always welcome to submit bi pride photos or posts, especially since June is Pride Month! I just got back from Japan, so I’ll be able to increase this blog’s activity a bit more.
But once again bisexual were there. So if in later years, some nitwit comes by and says that no bisexuals folks were ever active participants in improving life in West Michigan for LGBTQ folks, show them this.
A huge thank you for Kara bringing her awesome bi flag! It was a lot of fun walking together!
Olivia Wilde is known for playing bisexual characters on TV, but the actress isn’t worried about being typecast. In fact, she’s proud of her roles on “House” and “The OC.”
"Dear awful people, gather ‘round, because Mama’s got something important to say. Knock it the hell off. Stop making queer people in hetero relationships feel uncomfortable in queer spaces. Stop contributing to bi invisibility by insisting that queer girls who date boys are “straight now.” Stop acting like the person someone dates today negates the entire rest of their sexual and romantic history. Stop pressuring bisexual people back into the closet by ignoring the reality of their identities. Stop treating sexual orientation as an either/or. Stop policing other people’s sexuality. Stop being just as bad as the conservatives who ostracize people for being gay. We’re supposed to be the good guys, remember?"
"When you tie my wrists in those soft leather ties,
they make me feel so loved,
the way a hood quiets a falcon,
or an old black leather jacket
comforts a lonely little bi-dyke"
— - Jan Steckel, “Black Leather”, The Horizontal Poet
. (via bisexual-books
LGBTQ* Basics: ‘Femme’ Lesbian and Bisexual Women of Color
(Following from Femme on a Mission)
In a way, the women showcased below are members of a triple minority based on gender, ethnicity, and sexual orientation, making their successes all the more impressive and inspiring.
1. Jessica Clark
A successful model, out lesbian Jessica Clark has appeared in advertisements for Alexander McQueen and runway shows for Hermes and Julian McDonald. She also starred in Usher’s music video “Let It Burn.”
2. Natasha Kai
American soccer forward Natasha Kai set multiple records in her college career playing for the University of Hawaii. Now a superstar athlete, Natasha plays professionally for the Philadelphia Independence. She was also on the women’s National Team, representing the U.S. in the Women’s World Cup as well as the 2008 Summer Olympics in Beijing. Natasha is an out lesbian and was one of only two openly gay athletes on the 2008 USA Summer Olympic team.
3. Malinda Lo
Author Malinda Lo was born in China and moved to the United States as a child. She has written several young adult novels; her most successful being Ash, a lesbian retelling of Cinderella in which the title character gets the girl – not the prince. In 2006, Malinda received the Sarah Pettit Memorial Award for Excellence in LGBT Journalism by the National Lesbian & Gay Journalists Association.
4. Gloria Bigelow
Gloria Bigelow is an out lesbian comedian. As well as a variety of comedy specials, Gloria has had appearances on The Rachel Ray Show, Lifetime’s Cook Yourself Thin, and LOGO’sNewNowNext Awards. She also is one of the four stars of Cherry Bomb, a lesbian talk-show hosted on AfterEllen.
5. Dalila Ali Rajeh
Out bisexual actress Dalila Ali Rajah is a co-star of Gloria Bigelow on Cherry Bomb, as well as the producer of the series. With an MFA in acting from the California Institute of the Arts, she has appeared on stage in The Vagina Monologues and Joleta, and was the winner of the GLAAD Media Award for “Outstanding Los Angeles Theatre 2007.”
6. Vivan Wu
Vivan Wu came to the front of the lesbian scene recently as a member of the supporting cast of The Real L Word Season 2. But she is more than just the (ex?)-girlfriend of Claire; Vivian is an up-and-coming stylist, recently featured in Vogue Italia.
7. Staceyann Chin
Staceyann is a spoken word poet and political activist. Unabashedly feminist and an out lesbian, Staceyann produces poetry that is fearless and cuts deep.
8. Tasya van Ree
Photographer and artist Tasya van Ree is making a name for herself with her compelling and sensual work, most of which is in black and white. As well as still photography, Tasya also creates short art films often featuring her muse and girlfriend, out actress Amber Heard.
9. Margaret Cho
Margaret was recently featured as a Pretty Lady…on Femme on a Mission. Funny and fearless, Margaret has been a successful comedian, actress, recording artist, and all-around badass since the early nineties. She is openly bisexual, Wikipedia says that 15-20% of her body is tattooed, and my mother hates her, so basically she is awesome.
10. Jasika Nicole
Out lesbian actress Jasika Nicole is lighting up the small screen on Fox’s Fringe, playing the part of Astrid Farnsworth. She is also an illustrator, with a new comic in the works called Closetalkers about the beginning of a lesbian relationship formed between two roommates.
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